Showing posts with label empower. Show all posts
Showing posts with label empower. Show all posts

14 January 2015

January 2015 DEEP Body Love (Dive * Empower * Emerge * Play)


Here's what I know about the role of connection to your body and why it matters! Continued from January's Newsletter DEEP Body Love

There are several types of hunger! 

  If you, like me have been on and off diets for years it is probably very difficult to tell the difference between physical hunger or any other type of hunger. I feel this applies not only to 'dieters' but also to others who perhaps were prescribed healthy ways of nourishing the body by experts, such as: measures/amounts, combinations of food groups, what time of day to eat, exercise, etc and I really could go on.  Why this matters is because these methods/suggestions have very little to do with body connection.  They are mainly guided by the brain, what has been learned, read and regimented!

This is one of the reasons I have experienced, along with thousands of you, weight loss and putting it back on again or simply not knowing what to eat, being so confused. Is it any wonder! 


It is possible to be free from thinking whether or not you are eating the right thing! Our body is the most most reliable guidance system on the planet,but  it really does take time and patience to 'befriend' our bodies and to gain mutual trust.

Often, you think you're hungry but you know you just finished eating.  So are you thirsty or is it a different type of hunger? As mentioned there are many types of hunger, however I will be focusing on: 

  •   Physical hunger - when your body needs fuel.
  •   Emotional hunger - when the emotional brain kicks in.
  •   Spiritual hunger - when you are not living your passion, your values, enjoying life.
  •   Habitual-sensory hunger - we all know about habits, boredom, procrastination and external stimulus - smells, sounds, sights, tastes that motivate us to use food when it is unnecessary.

If we are not aware of what type of hunger is alerting us to nourish ourselves, then how can we truly satisfy the appropriate hunger AND if we do not know how to nourish each aspect of that hunger, how can we satisfy ourselves!

We have learned habits over a life time that have often been passed down from one generation to another.  We have a number of stories and beliefs that impact on how we attempt to nourish and satisfy ourselves, hence the complication but it is so possible to learn to reconnect to our bodies and to use her as our guide. 

Join the DEEP Body Love Facebook Group

I have just started a new facebook page called DEEP Body Love and will be launching a new program. Here is what it is all about:

If you have been trying to achieve an 'ideal' body shape, size or weight to make yourself happy and are still dissatisfied, then this is definitely for you. You can experience a more gentle, compassionate relationship with your body and food, to unlock a greater sense of life and vitality!

DEEP (Dive Empower Emerge Play) Body Love is about accepting and loving your body no matter what.

  • Dive to deep truths relating to how our body speaks to you and how it wants to be cared for and nourished.
  • Empower ourselves by knowing what beliefs, patterns and habits drive us, learning how to befriend our body to hear the messages of what we truly desire and deserve.
  • Emerge as the person we are meant to be, knowing the differences between emotional, physical and spiritual hunger to satisfy, nourish them appropriately.
  • And Play, by bringing more fun into our lives through playing, creating, practicing, being! Taking tangible small steps to a loving relationship with your body no matter what!.

I am so looking forward to this amazing journey.  As you know with any journey there are ups and downs, twists and turns, however we will have rests and pauses but will never give up. We will take small steps that can be fun and will keep momentum. Just like a pod of dolphins.  You are never alone!

Join the DEEP Body Love Facebook Group

Please consider joining this facebook page and see what happens.  You can always leave it if it’s not for you!

DEEP Body Love Face Book Page



DEEP Body Love to you
Love
Liz

24 September 2014

DEEP: Body Love's Theme Glorious Audacity part 2

Welcome to part 2 which continues the theme of audacity as featured in September’s 2014 Newsletter: Glorious Audacity and Blog 1 - DEEP:Body Love's Theme Glorious Audacity

Tips from Audacity
Day dream for 30 seconds if I felt good enough what would I do next? 
  • Add some really bright colours to your doodles.
  • Wear that very bright, bold piece of jewellery you bought when you were feeling audacious. 
  • Wear the lovely hat or shoes or clothing you thought was a good purchase.  
  • Where it around the house for a while and keep looking in the mirror and tell yourself you love it, even if that is hard to do.  Have fun with how you say it.
  • Take your hat, shoes, clothing out for a date, adventure, taking on the personae of them! 
  • Doodle, draw an audacious character, personae and name her/him/it. 
  • Text yourself or put a reminder on the computer and ask what if you were audacious what would you do?
  • Create, send yourself a permission slip to be audacious.  
  • Send yourself a love note telling you how loved you are.
  • Send yourself an invitation for an audacious date with you, a friend, a colleague, some you love or someone you don’t. 
  • Gift yourself the really crazy cup and saucer perhaps that you have always wanted!
  • Change the meal you usually have planned to something completing different without telling anyone and have fun watching their reactions! 
  • Say no to cooking, someone else can do it, you are going to have a candle lit bath with candles or going to play for 30 minutes!!!
 What are 3 things that you love doing?


  1.  
If you were A u d a c i o u s, choose one of your things you love doing and set yourself a small challenge of doing just one small step and enjoy the bliss.  Reminder yourself what it feels like to be connected and having fun.  Would love to hear what you have come up with. 

Jessica's "Daily Affirmation" 50 secs of pure inspiration.  
Beautiful audaciousness blossoming!   

Enjoy.

Liz 

17 September 2014

DEEP: Body Love's Theme Glorious Audacity


Welcome to this blog which continues the theme of Audacity as featured in September’s 2014 Newsletter: Glorious Audacity  

“When we are completely ourselves, we grace the world with a uniqueness that colours it with the interest and the variety brilliantly possible for us as humans.  We live a more fulfilling and energetic life because we are not using all the energy it requires to constantly please others.” Jill Badonsky, The Nine Modern Day Muses and A Bodyguard. 

I love this, because, well its true!!  It really is! I have seen countless people transform when they start to get just how much they are being guided by ‘shoulds’, other people’s opinion, living life from the outside.   It is an epidemic and so are the transformations, yay!!!

This is a mantra of mine.  “If I didn't care what other’s thought, what would I do?” This comes from a compassionate place and is always a curious inquiry  I have lost count of how many times I have thought “oh S***” this means I need to do it then.  It has not always worked out as I hoped, in fact a lot times it has not but because it was authentic, coming from my passion from what brings me joy I did not use it as a measure of failure, personally!  I really was proud of myself for giving it go and continue with curiosity, excitement, fear, fun (I love fun) and a feeling of being alive.  I am human and so this does not happen all the time but mostly.

Marney Makridakis from Artellaland shared this prompt:
If Audacity was an animal, maybe it might be a …

My response
If Audacity was an animal, maybe it might be a beautiful vibrant dolphin who allows itself to be.  It swims, dives, plays knows that whoever loves dolphins will enjoy and share in the absolute pleasure of its being and those who don’t, it does not matter.  It would not even have that thought!  It also knows that there are like minded species and it is part of something much bigger.

When I come from this energy, this space, I am so inspired and can take on the energy of this wonderful species to inspire me.  How cool is that!


Now your turn
If Audacity was an animal maybe it might be a …

Would love to hear what you came up with.  

Enjoy.

Liz 

24 May 2014

This month’s  theme from DEEP Body Love Coaching is Play
DEEP – Phinspire's motto - means "Discover Empower Emerge Play". Here is May’s weekly coaching/blog series which continues from the DEEP Truth of the Month for May: Play is the elixir of life for our bodies, therefore ourselves!

“You are led through your life time by the inner learning creature, the playful spiritual being that is your real self.” Richard Bach – Illusions

Imagine for a moment if you believed this, that play connects you to you, the real you.  Would you then give yourself permission to play?  This will nurture and develop a healthy relationship with  yourself, resulting in experience less ‘hunger’ for emotion and spiritual needs. 

How can you have fun as you connect with your body?
Here are some ideas to get you started:
* painting your nails
* wearing perfume
* wearing makeup if you usually don't, or not wearing it if you usually do
* putting a ribbon/slide in your hair
* new jewellery
* using hand cream
* wearing a scarf
* having a massage
* playing on a bouncy castle
* jumping on a trampoline
* face painting
* singing
* dancing
If you are unsure ask your inner child she will have lots of ideas.
Try these prompts to get you started:
1. To have fun with my body I am going to … and will I do it by … 
2. I am looking forward to this because ... 
3. My body wants to tell me …
4. I want to tell it …

For more DEEP Body Love support, I invite you to take a look at my newest programme here. We can work with the relationship with your body, food, yourself, which leads to much healthier relationships with others too.  You can book a 30-minute complimentary consultation to get started!

I look forward to you joining me next month for the journey with compassion. What a difference this will make to your life!


Have fun!

Love,

Liz

19 March 2014

Today's theme from DEEP is Emerge

DEEP – Phinspire's motto - means "Discover Empower Emerge Play". Here is March’s weekly coaching/blog series which continues from DEEP Truth of the Month for March: Paying attention reveals opportunities.

Aha-phrodite (from Jill Badonsky’s Nine Modern Day Muse and a Body Guard) loves quotes and shares many to inspire us to pay attention to the consequences of paying attention. 



“What is this thing called inspiration?  It is anything or anyone that gives you that rising passion in your heart to create something, to feel something, to sing something.  It is what makes you breathe deeply and love life if only for a moment.” – Tony Branch, columist for “Artist’s Inspiration,” Suite 101

How inspired are you to emerge as the person you are meant to be? 

Through the blog coaching this month, you have;
* noticed what works
* have gained further insights and knowledge to empower your choices

Now you get to feel what happens when you emerge from your new choice. 

An ARTsignment™ to Try: Word Collage

Write "What Works for ME" in the middle of a page. Then, all around it, simply write or doodle a bunch of words or images that come to mind.

Think about different aspects of your life…what works for you?  Play with writing these words, phrases, and symbols in different colors and different sizes.

You will be left with an assortment of words that express your feelings about what has been successful for you. These words represent the fuel and the inspiration for what is emerging with you. 

Pick one word that is especially lively, or even two words that you combine into a single word.

How would it be to allow yourself to emerge in the essence of this new word?

Live, be it even if it is for 5 minutes.  How can you remind yourself to create this new habit of emerging consciously with the values and qualities that matter to you?

What might that look like? Reply with a comment to share!

Love
Liz 

12 February 2014

Today's theme from DEEP is Empower

DEEP Truth:Two of Four

Permission to soar
Love empowers freedom
You inspire you

Connect, empower
Trusting, loving, compassion
Gifting you, nurture

Love, essence, spirit
Standing tall, proud, inspired
Loving your life, you

Deserving, joyful
Magical relationships
Created by love

What do you make of this?  How would it be to write a haiku or choose 1-3 words to describe how love can empower you or doodle, draw a symbol.  How may you use what you discovered to continue this empowering?

Love


Liz 

05 February 2014

Phinspire’s DEEP Truth of the Week: Today's theme from DEEP is Discover








DEEP – Phinspire's motto - means "Discover Empower Emerge Play". Here's a new weekly blog series which focuses on one of these concepts each week.

“The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I'm not going to let myself pull me down anymore.”  C. JoyBell C.

What is your reaction to this?

I thought …
I thought …
I thought …

I felt …
I felt …
I felt …

I would like to …
I would like to …
I would like to …

Here is my reaction: I thought that is so true.  I can put myself down like no one else and I really am not going to do that anymore.  I would not do that to another person because it is hurtful so how come I do it to me sometimes. This is not ok.  No more!

Congratulations on your discovery.  How may you celebrate this?

Love
Liz