Showing posts with label emerge. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emerge. Show all posts

14 January 2015

January 2015 DEEP Body Love (Dive * Empower * Emerge * Play)


Here's what I know about the role of connection to your body and why it matters! Continued from January's Newsletter DEEP Body Love

There are several types of hunger! 

  If you, like me have been on and off diets for years it is probably very difficult to tell the difference between physical hunger or any other type of hunger. I feel this applies not only to 'dieters' but also to others who perhaps were prescribed healthy ways of nourishing the body by experts, such as: measures/amounts, combinations of food groups, what time of day to eat, exercise, etc and I really could go on.  Why this matters is because these methods/suggestions have very little to do with body connection.  They are mainly guided by the brain, what has been learned, read and regimented!

This is one of the reasons I have experienced, along with thousands of you, weight loss and putting it back on again or simply not knowing what to eat, being so confused. Is it any wonder! 


It is possible to be free from thinking whether or not you are eating the right thing! Our body is the most most reliable guidance system on the planet,but  it really does take time and patience to 'befriend' our bodies and to gain mutual trust.

Often, you think you're hungry but you know you just finished eating.  So are you thirsty or is it a different type of hunger? As mentioned there are many types of hunger, however I will be focusing on: 

  •   Physical hunger - when your body needs fuel.
  •   Emotional hunger - when the emotional brain kicks in.
  •   Spiritual hunger - when you are not living your passion, your values, enjoying life.
  •   Habitual-sensory hunger - we all know about habits, boredom, procrastination and external stimulus - smells, sounds, sights, tastes that motivate us to use food when it is unnecessary.

If we are not aware of what type of hunger is alerting us to nourish ourselves, then how can we truly satisfy the appropriate hunger AND if we do not know how to nourish each aspect of that hunger, how can we satisfy ourselves!

We have learned habits over a life time that have often been passed down from one generation to another.  We have a number of stories and beliefs that impact on how we attempt to nourish and satisfy ourselves, hence the complication but it is so possible to learn to reconnect to our bodies and to use her as our guide. 

Join the DEEP Body Love Facebook Group

I have just started a new facebook page called DEEP Body Love and will be launching a new program. Here is what it is all about:

If you have been trying to achieve an 'ideal' body shape, size or weight to make yourself happy and are still dissatisfied, then this is definitely for you. You can experience a more gentle, compassionate relationship with your body and food, to unlock a greater sense of life and vitality!

DEEP (Dive Empower Emerge Play) Body Love is about accepting and loving your body no matter what.

  • Dive to deep truths relating to how our body speaks to you and how it wants to be cared for and nourished.
  • Empower ourselves by knowing what beliefs, patterns and habits drive us, learning how to befriend our body to hear the messages of what we truly desire and deserve.
  • Emerge as the person we are meant to be, knowing the differences between emotional, physical and spiritual hunger to satisfy, nourish them appropriately.
  • And Play, by bringing more fun into our lives through playing, creating, practicing, being! Taking tangible small steps to a loving relationship with your body no matter what!.

I am so looking forward to this amazing journey.  As you know with any journey there are ups and downs, twists and turns, however we will have rests and pauses but will never give up. We will take small steps that can be fun and will keep momentum. Just like a pod of dolphins.  You are never alone!

Join the DEEP Body Love Facebook Group

Please consider joining this facebook page and see what happens.  You can always leave it if it’s not for you!

DEEP Body Love Face Book Page



DEEP Body Love to you
Love
Liz

26 March 2014

Today's theme from DEEP is Play

DEEP – Phinspire's motto - means "Discover Empower Emerge Play". Here is March’s weekly coaching/blog series which continues from the DEEP Truth of the Month for March: Paying attention reveals opportunities. 

Now you get to play, take action.

In the interest of what works, how would it be to continue to pay attention to those times when you are creating your best life?  May I offer the ‘Traffic Light’ system?  I LOVE this and use is all the time.  Try writing these in your journal, or leave them in the comments.



Red - What are 1-3 things you need/want to stop doing, that no longer serve you?

Amber - What are 1-3 things that are working and would be useful to keep experiencing?

Green - What are 1-3 things that you could start doing that honor what you stand for and value and now you know works so well?

Congratulations you have just journeyed for a full month of Blog Coaching with myself, ARTbundance™ (Marney Makridakis, Artellaland) and Aha-phrodite (from Jill Badonsky’s Nine Modern Day Muses and a Body Guard). 

May I invite you to reflect with curiosity on your March journey and notice what you notice?  What have you enjoyed most?  Why?  I invite you to post a reply with your thoughts!

I look forward to you joining me next month for journey with Albert Muse, reframing, doing things differently, breaking the rules, thinking differently!!

Love

Liz

19 March 2014

Today's theme from DEEP is Emerge

DEEP – Phinspire's motto - means "Discover Empower Emerge Play". Here is March’s weekly coaching/blog series which continues from DEEP Truth of the Month for March: Paying attention reveals opportunities.

Aha-phrodite (from Jill Badonsky’s Nine Modern Day Muse and a Body Guard) loves quotes and shares many to inspire us to pay attention to the consequences of paying attention. 



“What is this thing called inspiration?  It is anything or anyone that gives you that rising passion in your heart to create something, to feel something, to sing something.  It is what makes you breathe deeply and love life if only for a moment.” – Tony Branch, columist for “Artist’s Inspiration,” Suite 101

How inspired are you to emerge as the person you are meant to be? 

Through the blog coaching this month, you have;
* noticed what works
* have gained further insights and knowledge to empower your choices

Now you get to feel what happens when you emerge from your new choice. 

An ARTsignment™ to Try: Word Collage

Write "What Works for ME" in the middle of a page. Then, all around it, simply write or doodle a bunch of words or images that come to mind.

Think about different aspects of your life…what works for you?  Play with writing these words, phrases, and symbols in different colors and different sizes.

You will be left with an assortment of words that express your feelings about what has been successful for you. These words represent the fuel and the inspiration for what is emerging with you. 

Pick one word that is especially lively, or even two words that you combine into a single word.

How would it be to allow yourself to emerge in the essence of this new word?

Live, be it even if it is for 5 minutes.  How can you remind yourself to create this new habit of emerging consciously with the values and qualities that matter to you?

What might that look like? Reply with a comment to share!

Love
Liz 

19 February 2014

Today's theme from DEEP is Emerge

DEEP Truth: Three of Four

This month is all about love, and loving yourself starts with liking yourself. If liking/loving yourself is on your agenda, how would it be to consider approaching 3 people that you respect, you know will be honest and you can trust to ask them 3 questions about you. 
  
This is not easy, however in strengthening the connection of love for yourself this exercise could enhance your knowledge and eventually your belief.  Trust me, this is the DEEP truth of the week.  J

Give it a go and if 3 people are too much try one person and one question.  Please may I suggest that when the person gives you the feedback, could you try saying "thank you", instead of making a comment about their comment.  This may not be easy for you.  How about you practice saying thank you, just thank you.  Just know that this may be a challenge or not.  If you knew someone else was dealing with discomfort and having courage to try something new, what would you say to them and then tell yourself this. 

You may want to share that you are practicing a new thing and feel uncomfortable with asking, knowing that they probably have not been asked questions like this before.  What a great way to develop together!  

Questions - only suggestions!
           What is one thing that you like about me?  Why?

What would be one thing that you think I need to hear that would help me like/love/value you myself?  Why?
  
          When has there been a time when you have noticed that I have liked/loved/valued myself?  Ask for a clear example, so that you can connect to what it felt like. 

How may you celebrate this achievement?

Love
  

Liz 

05 February 2014

Phinspire’s DEEP Truth of the Week: Today's theme from DEEP is Discover








DEEP – Phinspire's motto - means "Discover Empower Emerge Play". Here's a new weekly blog series which focuses on one of these concepts each week.

“The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I'm not going to let myself pull me down anymore.”  C. JoyBell C.

What is your reaction to this?

I thought …
I thought …
I thought …

I felt …
I felt …
I felt …

I would like to …
I would like to …
I would like to …

Here is my reaction: I thought that is so true.  I can put myself down like no one else and I really am not going to do that anymore.  I would not do that to another person because it is hurtful so how come I do it to me sometimes. This is not ok.  No more!

Congratulations on your discovery.  How may you celebrate this?

Love
Liz